May’s Wonderland ~~

what a unforgetable day…l wonder this is good to me or vice versa…what l hope is….l hope l can be better in future no matter in anything….

Imagine that men are Mars and women are Venus. The LoVe between the Venusians and Martians was magical. They delight is being together, doing things together, and sharing together. Though from different worlds, they reveled in their differences.

They spent months learning about each other, exploring and appreciating their different needs, preferences, and behavior patterns. For years they lived together in LoVe and HarMonY.

Then they decide to fly to EartH. In the beginning everything was wonderful and beautiful. BUT, the effect of EartH’s atmosphere took hold, and one morning everyone wake up with a peculiar kind of amnesia-selective amnesia!

Both the Martians and Venusians forgot that they were from different planet and were supposed to be different. In one morning everything they had learned about their differences was erased from their memory. And since that day men and women have been in conflict.

       *****_*******To be Continue******_*****

Don’t quit(><)

When things go wrong, as they sometimes will,
When the road you are trudging seems all uphill,
When the funds are low and the debts are high,
And you want to smile but you have to sigh,
When care is pressing you down a bit,
Rest if you must, but don’t you quit!

Life is queer with its twists and turns,
As everyone of us sometimes learns,
And many a failure turns about,
When he might have won had he stuck it out;
So don’t give up, though the pace seems slow,
You might succeed with another blow!

Success is failure turned inside out,
The silver tint in the clouds of doubt,
And you never can tell how close you are,
It may he near when it seems afar;
So stick to the fight when you are hardest hit,
It’s when things go wrong that you mustn’t quit!

tomorrow is my best friend ’s wedding..

l have to go to Kuching for her wedding dinner…

hey…gal …going to be  a wife….l hope that we can give her a special and unforgetable wedding night there….

will be there soon^^ see ya

只要你願意相信愛情，幸福就會永駐心中。不論過程是熱情擁抱或擦肩而過，結局是白頭相守或只能放手，能全心全意去愛一個人，就擁有了全世界最大的幸福。

有些感情的事，船過水無痕，真的沒有什麼。有些呢﹖也許，它什麼也沒有發生，卻比發生過什麼，更令人悸動。

失去，也是一種篤定。
就算擁有的時光，是那麼短暫；
能夠無怨無悔地為一個人付出，就是幸福

愛的極限是什麼？愛的極限是——天空。
當你伸手要觸摸它時，覺得遙不可及；
唯有不停地繼續仰望，才會發現它離你愈來愈接近

會哭的天使，有歡笑、也有淚水，
懂得悲憫與同情，也知道喜悅與感恩。
她付出給別人的，
永遠比自己所能得到的多很多。

她的出軌只不過是想報復男友的背叛而已。
最後，她才發現——報復所愛的人，
並不會令自己快樂。
報復的痛苦，讓她體會了原諒的必要

情海無涯，回頭是岸。
她不能明白：為什麼傷心的人，
總愛漂泊？還是因為漂泊的性格，常惹傷心？

愛，顯然經不起過度的反省和思考。
否則，女人將因此而莫名其妙地
覺悟自己做了多少愚蠢的事；
男人將因此而失去平常的溫和，開始變得不耐煩。 

月光從露台慢慢地進入她的房間，
初夏的暑氣在夜間悄悄沉澱。
風扇轉著轉著，把歲月的柔情緩緩送入彼此的心底。

每一個浮現在心底的疑問，
從紅塵滾滾的世界不斷昇華，
成為夜空中璀璨的星星。

一頓歷時89分鐘,價值274元的晚餐。一對男女戀人步出餐廳。

男的吃這頓飯吃得好辛苦,因他85分鐘都用了來想著公司的那份計劃書該怎樣做,
幸好女的一點也不發覺他心不在焉。

女的對男的說:「現在不算太晚,你不用送我了,我自己回家吧。」
明天就要交計劃書的男友,"立刻"答:
「好呀!那你小心點了,回家致電給我 吧。再見。」

男的飛快回家,去埋首他的工作,他不停的做直致電話響起。
他看看鐘原來已經半夜三 時許,是誰這麼夜來電’
他接過電話, 原來是他的未來外母:
「我女兒現在還沒回家,你不 是和她去了吃飯嗎’她怎樣了,我好怕……」
男的才記起女的說回到家後會致電他報 平安,
但現在已經夜半二、三時她為什麼還不回家。
男的心亂如麻,最後還是報警求助 。

去到警局,警員問他: [ 她失蹤時的衣著是’」
男的:「這…她……想不起來…」
警員:「不打緊,你先放鬆一下,那衣服的顏色總會記得吧’藍色’ 紅色’」
男的:「我…我只想著份計劃書,吃飯也低下頭…我不曾看過她的…」
警員:「她的髮型呢’長髮’短髮’」
男的:「我跟她一起很多年了…我所以…怎麼她的東西我一點也想不起…」
警員:「你說她是你女友,你們最近很少見面嗎’怎會連髮型也不知道,那她有帶
?? ? ? ??#39318;飾 , 手袋嗎’」 男的也是無言以對。

離開警局,男的覺得很驚訝,驚訝他對女友的"不上心"。
多年來他已把愛情的感覺當成 一種 習慣,就連對他的女友也"習以為常",
已經不把她放在心上了。
已過了三天,女的還是音訊全無,這三天男的除了擔心女友的安危,
就是不停的想:「她的髮型、她的衣著,我怎會不知道的!我一定要記起來!」

這夜,男的經過一條幽黑、灰暗的長街,竟看見女的就站在長街的盡頭。
男的高興得跑向她,想緊緊的擁抱她。
但走到女友的面前他就改變了主意,他雙手按著女友的肩膊,說:
「等一下,先不要動。讓我看清楚你,你的頭髮、你的衣著,我要好好的記著。
???#22238;想起那晚,其實是你發現我還有工作在身,想我早點回家工作而叫我不用送你的。
???#19968;直以來只有你還關心我的感受,而我卻不理會你。
???#20294;不要緊,我已知道應怎樣去愛你、珍惜你。
???#30456;信 我,你的一切一切今後都會常在我心中的。」

女的:「你終於都懂得理會我的感受,懂得珍惜我了…可惜已經太遲……」
男的忽然醒過來,原來剛才的是一場夢。
夢醒後男的努力去想,夢中女友的衣著、髮型,但還是記不起來…..

隔天,男的終於再見到他的女友,就是在警員帶他到殮房認屍的時候……
望著躺在停屍間的女友,男的哭著說:
「我終於知道你的髮型,衣著,我現在才 真正的看真你。我會記著的,永遠都會記著的…
??我剛想到要珍惜你…你醒醒呀…不要就這樣離開我好嗎……」

男的剛學會珍惜, 卻已後悔莫及。現在他除了哭泣,就什麼都做不了……

也許你常發現我一直凝望著你!你問我看什麼呢？
我笑笑的回答….沒什麼 ,只是想將你的一切記在心裏 ,在見不到你時細細回味……….

★ 好好珍惜 ★

看到一個深愛著你的人為你而改變

因為愛你，他收起他的頑固脾氣

因為愛你，他對別人都以感謝的心

因為愛你，他把你的興趣也變成是他的興趣

喜歡一個人是沒有原因的

他無悔的付出，都認為是值得的，只要能和相愛的人在一起…

其實我們的身邊都有一些這樣的人，只是我們還沒發現…

最懂你的人，總是會一直的在你身邊守護你，不讓你有一絲的委屈…

真正 愛你的人，不會說許多愛你的話卻會做許多愛你的事…

如果你身邊有這樣的人的話，請你好好珍惜………..

LOve is not about things we have or what we have dine, but rather by what we have kearned from what wae have or what we have done.

LOve is not about things but a bout the soul. Things are important –and l am not suggesting that they are not –but they should not be mistaken for love, which they often are.

LOve is about first pain. Were it  otherwise, libraries full of books about love and finding ourselves would not be necessary. These books would not be necessary. But Love is   about pain, and so they are a nd this is. Indeed, we cannot know LOve unless we know pain, for it isthe pain itself that creates our abilities to know LOve.

We struggle with the pain to love because we continue to love pain. when we find ourself in love we are in great pain, with feelings of probable loss, of jealousy , of anxiety, of abandonment. we hae these feeling of pain because we perpetuate them out of our feelings of lack of self-worth. we are unwilling to let go of these feeling because it is better to know the certainty of the pain than the uncertainty of the new. so the feelings about the pain in ourselves simply get transferrred to our love lives.

每一次都在徘徊孤单中坚强,
每一次就算很受伤也不闪泪光,
我知道我一直有双 ,带我飞过绝望,
不去想他们拥有美丽的太阳,
我看见每天的夕阳也会有变化
我知道我一直有双隐型翅膀的带我给我希望.
我终于看到所有梦想都开花
追逐的年轻歌声多嘹亮.
我终于翱翔用心凝望不害怕.
那里会有风就飞多远吧
不去想他们拥有美丽的太阳,
我看见每天的夕阳也会有变化
我知道我一直有双隐型的带我给我希望.
我终于看到所有梦想都开花
追逐的年轻歌声多嘹亮.
我终于翱翔用心凝望不害怕.
那里会有风就飞多远吧
隐型的翅膀让梦很久比天长
留一个愿望让自己想象

P/s: I love this song very much….especially  the lyric…it’s damn good and touching:P…

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